Last week we asked readers to vote on the post they wanted me to create. The winner was 6 Myths About Squirting. Here you go!
Female ejaculation has been called the “one of the most hotly debated questions in modern sexology” because nobody has been in a position to crack the code about how exactly or why it takes place. We can agree that squirting may be the expulsion of fluid through and round the urethra during or before a climax.? For many women, it is the unicorn of sexual experiences, meaning we’ve only imagined meeting it in person. This explains why there are plenty of urban legends about a friend of a friend of a cousin who could get it done on command every time. And you’re like, “Gee thanks, that actually helps me appreciate this thing.” It might be a while before we’ve definitive answers, on the other hand we can break down some of the existing myths about squirting.
1. It’s pee. Many experts think that what arrives when a woman is ejaculating is urine. Ladies who squirt will tell you otherwise. Some have trained with the smell or even the taste make sure insist that it’s NOT pee. Scientific research on the matter has been inconsistent. Inside a study published within the Journal of Sexual Medicine, researchers determined that? the fluid emitted during orgasm showed all of the characteristics of prostate plasma and not urine and figured this can be proof our Paraurethral/Skene’s gland, where the fluid originates from, work as female prostate glands.
2. That everybody woman is able to do it, they simply need to learn. There are lots of “experts” in the female sex education world who believe that it is possible for every woman to squirt because, duh, everyone has Skene’s glands so why shouldn’t we have the ability to. The key expert in female ejaculation, Deborah Sundahl, offers books and workshops that “makes female ejaculation within reach for many woman.” I believe the operative word here’s most. What does most really mean? Scientific studies are, again, inconsistent. Percentages of ladies who report that they have at some time experienced the gushing of fluid during orgasm range from six percent to 60 percent depending on the study. Another factor which may determine a woman’s ability to squirt may be the placement of the Skene’s gland and skill to produce prostate fluid. This differs from woman to woman, meaning that, physiologically, its not all woman can squirt, despite the proper education.
3. That “squirting” and “gushing” are identical thing as female ejaculation. Squirting and gushing in many cases are used interchangeably when conversing about female ejaculation, but they’re is a different thing. It has been suggested that “real” female ejaculation includes the discharge of the thick and whitish fluid from the female prostate, while “squirting” or “gushing,” commonly seen in porn, is the expulsion of clear fluid from the urinary bladder. Much of our confusion about female ejaculation comes from mixing both of these phenomena up.
4. That it’s caused by stimulation from the G-spot. Because we’re still unclear about the G-Spot, it is no surprise that there are some question whether or otherwise the G-Spot accounts for female ejaculation. Here’s the deal: the Skene’s gland is located on the back wall of the vagina close to the lower end from the urethra and could be near or area of the G-Spot. So, while stimulating the G-Spot during sex can lead to female ejaculation for some women for others it may not do jack. And that’s assuming that you’ve found your G-Spot. God, vaginas require so much effort.
5. That women who are able to ejaculate experience more pleasure compared to those who don’t. Some ladies who can ejaculate have claimed that their “wet orgasms” are superior to the most effective “dry orgasm.” For this sexual superiority complex, I only say WHATEVER. If you are enjoying your “dry orgasms,” good for you. And if you’re enjoying your wet orgasms, good for you, too! Nobody has the right to tell anyone the way they ought to be experiencing pleasure. Do the things that work for you personally.
6. That what you see in porn is real.? Oh porn and the unrealistic, sexual expectations it imposes here.? Whenever you see a large amount of fluid squirting out of a ladies vagina in porn, keep in mind that this is often faked by putting water within the vagina before filming or by having a woman pee on camera. Women who can ejaculate will explain that it’s easiest when you’re relaxed and having cameras on you isn’t the most relaxing method to experience pleasure. Most women who ejaculate report that they aren’t able to do it on command like circus ponies.? Suppose.